In Proverbs 4, we are given more insight into the counsel of a father for his son. We are given more encouragement to take hold of good godly counsel and to let its many blessings lead you in life.
Solomon, mentions many of the blessings that holding fast to good, godly counsel will give us in this life.
Proverbs 4:6 says that this kind of wisdom “will keep you; and she will guard you.”
Proverbs 4:8-9 says that this kind of wisdom “will exalt you; and honor you if you embrace her. And she will place on your head a graceful garland; she will bestow on you a beautiful crown.”
Proverbs 4:10 says that this kind of wisdom will “make the years of your life many.”
Proverbs 4:12 says that this kind of wisdom “will cause your step to not be hampered, and you will not stumble.”
So there are practical benefits to hearing, keeping and walking in good, godly counsel. We will be guarded, rewarded, it will prolong our days and cause us to walk without stumbling.
This is so practical and true, but somehow we are guilty of missing its application in our lives. Many of us are quick to say, “Amen and yes; I find that to be true,” but then we are guilty of not applying it to our daily lives. Instead, we set the godly truths we have learned aside, and we end up in jeopardy; or instead of being rewarded, we are penalized; instead of our days being plentiful, they are cut short, and we end up stumbling because we look to sinful desires within ourselves, or we head the counsel of the wicked or step into the temptations of the worldly.
The good news is that Proverbs is going to keep driving this point home again and again. Are you seeking and valuing wisdom? Are you heeding it and applying it? Because you will falter and sin and stumble if you do not.
James said this so well in his letter: “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.” James 1:22
Sunday church is not enough. You are not done with your eating of the truths of God when church is over. No, your diet of God’s truths should just be beginning. Your pastor’s teaching the word should be a catalyst for your walking in and mediating on and living out the word of God all week long. But all too often what we end up doing is hearing it on Sunday and then never doing it throughout the week.
Same thing with our daily Bible reading. Is it just a moment in your day? You read it and then you are done and on to other things? Or does it wreck you, propel you, slow you down, cause you to truly be changed and motivated to live out the truths you have learned and the wisdom God has given you?
In the second part of Proverbs 4, we are admonished to avoid the path of the wicked.
Warnings to avoid what is sinful and evil in the sight of the Lord are a great gift from God.
Do you regularly invite mature godly brothers and sisters to speak into your life: to love you enough to bring warning;
to walk with you in life so they can have eyes on you to help you see what you are not seeing.
I have found this to be a great gift in our lives in the body of Christ. We are all susceptible to sin and therefore blessed to be warned to avoid sin and evil that we just don’t see ourselves.
Proverbs 4:14 Do not enter the path of the wicked, and do not walk in the way of the evil.
15 Avoid it; do not go on it; turn away from it and pass on.
The writer goes on to highlight the way of the wicked and how it practices lawlessness and stumbles in the darkness.
But the way of the Lord is life in the light, which is a blessing and a great provision of good.
Finally, in verse 24, he brings his counsel to a close in this chapter by specifically calling for his listeners to put away the specific practice of crooked speech and devious talk. To keep your eyes looking ahead at the prize and not at the wicked things of this world. To be mindful of the steps of your feet so that you do not swerve and turn into evil.
Brothers and sisters, this is important counsel that we need to be reminded of often, as we will as we read through Proverbs this year. Sin is tempting, acting like the world is always before us to gain laughter or acceptance by those with whom we do life.
We must heed this counsel to avoid acting like or walking with the world. We must not set down our testimony of Christ and become loose with our daily and moment by moment practices.
So take inventory this morning so you are not just a hearer but a doer.
Are you constantly valuing the counsel of the word of God and of mature believers in your life? Inviting them in? Feasting on God’s word daily?
What are you looking at lately? Other people, media on the commuter or phone?
What are you saying with your mouth? Course jokes, teasing others, cutting remarks, language that doesn’t exalt God?
What are your habits or practices? The things you do daily? The places you go and the things you do? Are they of the world, or do make much of the name of Jesus?
As you contemplate these this morning, don’t consider making changes alone. Go to God in prayer and share with a trusted brother or sister so they can walk with you and hold you accountable. May the Lord be glorified, and may our lives be better for the practical application of these things.